Can mistakes be made because you are too close to your own product?

It's worse, you will always make certain mistakes because you're too close to it.

It's just like trying to proofread your own writing. You can't do a good job. If you let a lot of time pass and you can approach it fresh, you see all sorts of things that were invisible before.

This applies to everything as "simple" as writing copy on your website to as complex as choosing opportunities and hiring people.

However I don't think the items you list necessarily have anything to do with being "close" to the product. "Not outsourcing" isn't a problem of closeness, but of not weighing the pros and cons properly.

A better example would be a crappy UI design where you lose potential customers every day and you can't see why.

The antidote is to recognize this and seek external validation. For the crappy UI, hold in-house usability tests where you ask people to perform simple tasks and observe what they do, what trips them up, and where they get stuck.

Yes. It's important to take a step back and evaluate the direction you are going in. Most of the time we're in the trenches coding, designing, sweating, thinking on a micro level. Every now again you must return to the macro and see the big picture.

Case in point, In the past month I've had a couple collegues, friends, and other close associates evaulate my project, and everyone of them pointed out at least one "duh" design flaw. Also, it's helpful to have that one person who you know that will be critical of the implementation of your project.

All these answers are great, but one more pitfall is not knowing where your strengths are.

A great example is Macys a couple decades ago. I'm paraphrasing Dan Ariely's Predictably Irrational (I think): Macy's saw themselves as an upscale clothing store, but they started selling more and more appliances to their customers. Instead of marketing, enhancing, or promoting their appliances, they did the exact opposite and started scaling down that part of their operation.

Obviously, this sounds dumb, but it's a result of being too close to your product. You see your company one way and really try to promote that, but the users see your company another way.

I'm not saying ditch your favorite features and be a slave to your users, but be very, very mindful of what other people say about your product, and be willing to change your mission statement to reflect what they like.

This is a very common problem, and the best advice I can give you is to watch this video on Customer Development

Check out Steve Blank's blog

I highly recommend Sean Ellis's blog, a good starting point would be this post Milestones to Start-up Success

Get ready for a bumpy ride, and good luck!

Yes! Don't forget the entrepreneur's 11th commandment: Thou shalt not fall in love with my product or service.

Getting too close to your product or service is bad karma. It not only clouds one's judgement but can masquerade the basis for an otherwise viable business model.

Leading with a product or service is always dangerous even if it's the result of a thoughtful idea that has business merit.

In the beginning, entrepreneurs should always create a structure for their venture, one that starts with an idea (opportunity recognition) and then the identification of a customer.

Who's the customer? What's the benefit? And how do we get the benefit to the customer? These are the three most important concerns of any startup and these concerns should be addressed during the development stage of the venture . When these questions are answered they form a concept and concepts, with careful testing and analysis (feasibility), can be proved or disproved.

Feasibility testing does not eliminate your risk of failure or underperformance but it certainly manages it more intelligently because of its objectivity.

On the other hand, leading your start-up with a product or a target market in mind is very risky because one is looking for a problem to solve and the other is attempting to differentiate an unknown. Both are very risky and when you add the entrpreneur's attachment of affection to the mix you have a disaster in the making.

Integrity and objectivity is essential for any startup and is the first goal to be achieved. Without these virtues, your model and business plan will be flawed.

In essence, it's always nice to sell the dream but it's much better to buy the reality.

As a reminder, VC's only buy realities.

Make sure the pond is safe before you cross it - do your homework and use sound judgement.

Tommy Jaye

I'd agree with Jason - no one can be objective about their (startup) baby. That said, what's been missing in the definition of "startup good practices" is how to address this. A ceo of a new startup did a guest post at my blog friday about his company - http://AskMyBrainTrust.com. I think the idea - or your own implementation of it - has a lot of merit.

If you look at big companies, evenly privately held companies, there's both the formal mechanism of a Board of Directors, and informal "kitchen cabinets" of advisers.

The trick is making this a win-win for your advisers - what do they get out of the deal?